Promise Emmanuel: The Ghost-Worker Jigolo

If you're a young man that goes after vulnerable teenagers and young women to prey on their vulnile emotions, get under their virgin pants, have them emotionally attached to you and then lay a continuous siege on their emotions to a temperate torture, taking advantage of their inexperience.. You have a Low Self Esteem!

You besiege their emotions toggling it off and on, seeing them scream, beg, cry and even honeycomb at you, while your ego and low self esteem feed-off their reactions to affirm your masculinity. You're just cheap, lack no real emotional strength. You engage before being engaged in the emotional gun battle because you cant take what they take. So, philosophically, attack is the best form of defense to you. You're weak, all time weak. What you have built is a reputation of a Sociopath, at best you could even be a psychopath who uses brute force to achieve your means.

You have sabotaged your integrity as a man in conspiracy to defraud others emotionally in order to fan the embers of your internal emptiness. What makes you feel a man? Why should you feel like a man? Because you have a penis, a masculine body and scattered strands of hair all over your body? Take a trip to mexico, they have cute men who work hard to pay their bills and still respect the emotions of others.

The characteristically low breeds in this category of men(boys) are those who use their emotional advantage against inexperienced women to acquire monetary gains. They virtually feed off the pockets of women. To your lazy and compromised self, you feel good that a woman spends her cash on you or even steal to fund your wallet because you're her god! You're reeking in extreme physical poverty, backed by poverty-mentality. You have no respect for the ministry of manhood. You can never be knighted in manhood for you are even below the working lady who fills your wallet.

You're a male prostitute, a gold digger who sells his masculine nature for feminine returns.

Some of these low breed breed of men (boys) build an empire from this ghost worker occupation. You're bought cars and even drive in cars owned by those you take advantage of emotionally.

And then these crop of emotional fraudsters who are also social ghost-workers have the entitlement mentality that their looks and emotional dribbling skills are their potentials for a bright future. Like a soldier after war, they maraud seeking spoils of war from defenseless women to achieve their inglorius success journey.

They exist these special ones with the talent of going after single mothers and socially disadvantaged ladies. These are soft targets for their emotional terrorism. They open the chamber of the already damaged single mother or older woman who have had their love beautiful days flogged by relationship mishaps and subject them to another rescar. They promise them marriage, companionship and whatnot in order to let the strong woman who has worked hard to scoop sustenance finance for herself and those she's responsible for, loosen her financial guard while ther enter into it, loot it and leave her bankrupt. They leave these women in pieces, looting their emotional peace and finances away. What you are? An emotional terrorist!

..and perhaps, with nothing much to give in return, you deposit STDs and other types of infection from the sexual banks you have robbed overtime from your emo-lootocracy avalanche.

When you account for the summation of the treasure from your emotional yahoo yahoo occupation, you give yourself the mirage assurance of the tag "big boy", while using that to convince yourself that you have built a talent. Yours is pathetic, you have not lived the life of a man. You have been a trowel ladies and young unsuspecting girls use as a clean house. What awaits you is a splendour of confusion and monumental bankruptcy. This type you won't be able to recover from. Like a hard reality, you'll realise that you have spent all your ghost worker life labouring into futility.

Here are my real big boys:

The Ok sellers on the streets, the brick layers, the mechanics, shoe makers, the young farmers, the bloggers, the lawyers and academics, the writers, the entrepreneurs, the young graduates still searching for jobs, the seasoned career men, the young CEOs ecetera.

My VIP Big bOys are: Those who have been humiliated by working extra hard to keep their fiancees in stiff competition with those ghost-workers, those who have been called broke by Ghost-worker ladies (girls) and keeping unrelent in working hard, the teachers and lecturers who are poorly paid but still maintains a family and its dignity. The young writers, inventors and innovators who the society government is yet to recognise but kept their dreams alive.

My Very VIP Big Boys are: Those that are emotionally strong, understand how to manipulate others but never manipulate. They help the vulnerable with their strength and take the plunge always. Those that feign financial incentive from ladies or teens as a ground to defraud them emotionally. And finally, those that will read this piece with an open heart, learn from it.. share it on their walls, blogs etc until it touches many lives and also encourage my VIPs and VVIPS.

C. Promise Emmanuel, 15th June, 2016.